Taichung City, Taiwan, March 2016
I brought my family to Taiwan. We offered to help out a friend who was working on an art installation in the National Taiwan Museum of Fine Arts in Taichung City. It was a relatively short trip that had its share of ups and downs. But what loomed over my head insidiously was an unmistakable change in the behavior of my son that started a month prior. It was something I tried to dismiss, but really couldn't. It wasn't until much later when the pieces were put together that I had a better understanding of what was going on.
On our walks in the city, he had this penchant of walking ahead of me with no regard to anything around him. He never looked behind to check if either of his parents was still nearby. He tried to break free every time I tried to hold on to him. I always found myself having to catch up to him in corridors and walkways as he kept moving. The pictures below will offer you glimpses of what I dealt with.
We also spent time with an artist couple who had a daughter roughly the same age who I understood had her own little developmental issues. But even then, she was significantly ahead in many aspects and was more conscious of her surroundings.
At nearly two years old, close friends and his grandparents were already noticing how he actively avoided eye contact and wanted no part of anybody other than his mother. Even I had a difficult time interacting with him. It was a stark contrast to the baby boy that always smiled and laughed to the delight of everyone around him.
Little did I know back then that autism had become a distinct possibility for him.
Perhaps my ignorance back then was a blessing in disguise. It would be months before I was adequately educated of my son's condition. By then I could already look back at the pictures below with amusement. Otherwise, I'd be picking up a very different story immediately after taking these pictures.
These seemingly symbolic scenes of him walking alone in the huge expanse offered by the parks in the city evoke strong emotions that haunt me, which I am sure some of you can relate to. I still choke up a little bit as I type this post.
The difference seen in the pictures here and our Hanoi trip more than eight months later was dramatic. It was almost like he was in his own world in Taichung. Hanoi saw a boy significantly more engaged with his surroundings and the doting people around him.
Nearly one year after, I am relieved to say that things have improved significantly. The doctor still doesn't want to completely rule out autism, and he continues to attend therapy sessions to address his issues. But at this stage, the possibility of the condition that I dread for my son has become highly unlikely.
There is still a fairly long trail that lies ahead. But at least now, I am confident that the worst of this issue is over and things will be looking up.